An autobiographical memoir of my childhood, honoring both my late Mother as well as my late Nephew, penned as an open letter to my Father. This is my healthy personal perspective of two broken children marrying one another, having two children of their own and trying to navigate the responsibilities of raising a Family without the proper tools that are necessary for the most successful outcome.
This book is both a cautionary tale as well as a guide to true self love. In order to discover who you are you must re-visit your childhood to unpack your unaddressed trauma.
You'll then be able to better understand and forgive your parents for not giving you the tools that they weren't given. You'll then learn to have empathy for every single human being on earth. You'll then be able to forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn't know. You'll then learn to live and love the true authentic version of yourself without apologies to anyone. This is when you will meet your Purpose, you'll also stop asking for Permission.
This book was born out of necessity, starting as a simple letter that I decided to write to my Father. It outlines my healing, in real time, throughout the tumultuous Covid-19 Pandemic of 2020.
I'm extremely proud of this project and the beautifully painful process of creating it while unpacking my childhood trauma. I feel that so many other beautiful souls in our World will find this content useful, as a guide to assist them on their own individual healing journey.
It isn't solely about coming to terms with growing up in a single parent household. It's mostly about confronting yourself, your demons, your past then getting to a place of acceptance and forgiveness.
Your first priority in this life is to figure out who you and whose you are by unpacking your life's story in a healthy way, then healing your traumas by living the most fulfilling life possible, discovering your gifts and walking in your purpose.
This art is needed. It's necessary in the ecosystem and I'm grateful to God for gifting me with the writing skills, the creativity and the honor of perspective.
This entire process was extremely healing for me, as I now feel that a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders.
I pray that you find it healing for you as well.
There's so much to see here. Take your time, look around, + learn. Please subscribe to my YouTube Channel + listen to my Podcast also follow me on all Social Media Platforms. Thank you.♥
Kim Jacobs was born in South Carolina and is truly a Southern gal at heart. A few years after her Parents’ divorce, Kim’s Mother found herself unable to make ends meet, ultimately being forced to move up North, to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania leaving everything behind in her beloved Hometown of South Carolina.
Kim’s Mother, Lou Ethel, relocated to gain family support so that she could successfully navigate a new career path while raising her two children as a single Mother.
After her Mother’s passing in 2016, Kim’s family foundation was abruptly ripped apart so she decided to embark on a journey of healing and self~discovery.
Kim picked up the pieces of her life by moving to a new State, going back to School to study Real Estate, prepare for a new career path while exploring her creative passions.
In the latter part of 2019, Kim attempted to establish a relationship with her Father whom she had not laid eyes on since the age of 15.
She had unanswered questions so she flew home to South Carolina to see him. She landed on his front doorstep unannounced. Their reconnection started out organically, smooth and promising then slowly declined. Shortly after that trip Kim's young nephew's life was violently cut short due to gun violence.
This book was born out of necessity, it outlines her healing in real time. Kim decided to unpack all of her painful Traumas by examining them in the healthiest way possible in order to apply the proper perspective.
Kim describes in full detail the ups and the downs that she experienced throughout the Covid-19 Pandemic of 2020 as it relates to her, once again, severed Father~Daughter connection.
Kim has now rebranded herself as Phoenix On Purpose and has Trademarked her personal Brand ~ Purpose NOT Permission™️.
Kim is passionate about Animals, Travel, Creative Arts, Self-Development, Reading, Writing, Bodies of Water, Spontaneous adventures and walking barefoot in Nature.
Kim is a licensed Realtor®️ in both New Jersey and Pennsylvania as well as a New Jersey Mobile Notary Public.
Kim is now a writer. Writing was always her gift and passion. She also performs live Poetry via Spoken Word, has a YouTube Channel and a Podcast Streaming now on all available Podcast Stations.
Kim is conquering all of her fears by becoming...
I love all People regardless of Race, Religion, Color, Creed, Class, Sex, Origin or Socioeconomic Status. I wonder what our World would look like if we could all learn to love ourselves equally as much. My purpose is to serve, let me show you how❗️
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